F.Y.L.O.D.: Gaslighting Once = I'm Done

Everyone has a “list” when it comes to dating…
but at what point does it stop being standards and start being unrealistic?

In this conversation, we break down:

Why people create long “non-negotiable” dating lists

The difference between real standards vs fantasy expectations

Why effort and communication matter more than words

And the truth about gaslighting…

Because once someone gaslights you?
That’s not a mistake — that’s a dealbreaker.

“You do that one time… it’s an immediate halt.”

Real relationships require accountability.
If someone can’t own their actions, there’s nothing to build on.